Bereavement
Although grieving is a natural process which can be helped by the sympathy and understanding of friends, sometimes one may need support to work through it in a positive way. Friends don't always know how to help; they may be embarrassed by one's grief; they may even avoid meeting one in the mistaken belief that a meeting may increase distress. It is quite normal to feel anger, guilt, fear and depression as well as the awful pain of loss. These feelings need to be expressed rather than repressed, to be talked out, cried over and put in some sort of perspective. It helps the healing process to talk with a trained listener and confront the very strong feelings associated with grief.
For support at a time of bereavement or loss, you can contact our confidential parish service: 087 630 9808
Celebrating the Funeral Mass
Click here for a booklet of Readings and Prayers for the Faithful. The priest will help the family in choosing these Readings. Families are encouraged to use the sample prayers and to edit them according to their own wishes.
Secular songs, poems and texts without Christian context are out of place; however post Communion reflections of a prayerful nature can serve to enhance the Liturgy.
It is customary for the priest to invite members of the congregation to come forward to offer their sympathy to the mourners. If you do not wish to avail of this custom, kindly inform the priest.
Appreciations given by family and friends of the deceased should not take place in the church but may occur after the Rite of Committal at the cemetery.
Further information is available at www.catholicireland.net/requiem